I would think that parenting would be instinctual, a natural part of human existence, but it is evidently so much more than that. I think that a large flaw in our American society is the rearing of a child by just two parents. This creates so many differences amongst us and often fatigue on the part of the parents. I really believe that children should be raised more communally and have a wide network of mentors from the start. Sure, some kids experience this support from a community, but there are too many whose parents are overworked and they end up pretty much on their own.
One of the most critical components of parenting, in my opinion, is love. I think that being loved by parents can greatly affect one's confidence, friendships, and motivation throughout life. There is no one way to show love-some express it by being overprotective and strict while other parents trust and provide freedom. I also don't want to sound like I'm oversimplifying; love is important but even parents who love their children have a lot of flaws in their parenting.
I am very, very grateful for my parents. They provide me with so much support, safety, and guidance. My friends often hear me complain when my dad calls me about six times a day or imposes ridiculous beliefs, but ultimately I know that it is because he cares…a lot. I think that the values and motivation that I have are definitely an outcome of their pushing me to work hard and stay busy.
